Seeking to understand America’s gun culture and political choices by listening first.

Attempting to understand rather than judge is not about agreement but about connection. Through Franks’ lens, I was reminded that real change, or even just meaningful dialogue, starts with an open mind. Instead of wondering “how could they?” perhaps the question should be, “what do they see that I don’t?” This willingness to listen and reflect is what ultimately bridges the gap, fostering respect and, hopefully, paving the way for a deeper understanding.

As someone living in Australia, it’s challenging for me to understand some aspects of American life that differ so fundamentally from my own. I’ve often wondered about the intense attachment to firearms in the United States, where gun ownership is not just a right but a deeply ingrained part of identity for many. Equally perplexing is the political support for figures like Donald Trump, whose values and actions seem so far removed from those held by the average Australian. In my efforts to understand, I’ve come to appreciate the value of stepping back and listening to others’ realities without judgment.

Earlier this year, Melbourne photographer Tom Franks took a trip to Arizona with an ambitious project: he wanted to capture portraits of everyday Americans and their guns. What he returned with was a series that showed not just people with their firearms, but a community whose reality is fundamentally different from ours. In Prescott, Arizona, Franks found mothers, homemakers, even children with their own guns. To many Americans, guns represent self-reliance and protection, cultural cornerstones built over generations, and codified in their constitution. Franks’ experiences reminded me how vital it is to approach such topics with an open mind, setting aside personal judgments to understand why others make the choices they do.  Please visit Tom’s website here to see more of this amazing series

For many Australians, it might seem unimaginable to live with guns as casually as any other household item. But the gun culture in America is intricately tied to a collective sense of freedom and individual rights. Franks noted that his subjects were warm, welcoming, and proud to share their experiences, viewing gun ownership as something entirely normal. Their cultural reality, though so different from ours, isn’t an anomaly – it’s a deeply embedded value.

This journey to understand extends beyond the tangible matter of guns to the more complex question of political preferences, particularly support for leaders like Donald Trump. For many Americans, Trump embodies a spirit of resistance to government control, a rugged individualism that resonates in ways that are hard to grasp from afar. Much like gun ownership, Trump represents more than just policy; he stands as a symbol for a vision of America that values self-sufficiency and protection from external influence.

These values stem from lived experiences and collective memories that are largely distinct from Australia’s, yet they are very real for those who hold them. For Americans in places like Arizona, choices we may see as counterintuitive or even harmful make sense within the framework of their reality. Franks’ project highlighted a truth that resonates deeply with me: if we truly wish to understand others, we must listen to their stories without the filter of our own assumptions. Only by doing so can we begin to see the world from their perspective.

Attempting to understand rather than judge is not about agreement but about connection. Through Franks’ lens, I was reminded that real change, or even just meaningful dialogue, starts with an open mind. Instead of wondering “how could they?” perhaps the question should be, “what do they see that I don’t?” This willingness to listen and reflect is what ultimately bridges the gap, fostering respect and, hopefully, paving the way for a deeper understanding.

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Read article ‘Everybody owns a gun. It’s like having a cordless drill’

Other articles in the Sydney Morning Herald on this day 8th November 2024 when many of us feel the world stepped back in time and forgot that thousands and thousands of people died to save us from dictators

Trump trounced the Democrats, but will he also destroy democracy?

“Most Americans believe that their country is riddled with corruption … that government serves the elites and not the people,” Peter Hartcher wrote in the aftermath of Donald Trump’s extraordinary US presidential election victory on Tuesday. “And now they have delivered the death sentence to the system they feel betrayed them.”
It’s a grim analysis, but Hartcher wasn’t alone.
Jacqueline Maley said the success of Trump’s campaign, loaded as it was with “rank masculinity”, was a particularly bitter disappointment for women. “If we thought the desolation in 2016 was bad, when a fresher Donald Trump trounced the highly qualified Hillary Clinton, it is worse now,” she wrote.
US-born Bruce Wolpe, who has worked on many Democrat campaigns, was also despairing at what might be ahead for the world with Trump back in the White House. “It’s beginning to look and feel like the 1930s,” Wolpe suggested.
New York-based Maureen Dowd identified the uncomfortable truths now confronting the land of the free. “We must now fathom the unfathomable: all the misogynistic things, the racist things, the crude things, the undemocratic things he’s said and done don’t negate his appeal to millions of voters.”
Niki Savva interrogated the implications of Trump’s victory on Australian politics. “The core issues during the US presidential election were the cost of living, immigration, abortion and the character of the candidates. These same issues – intractable, incendiary and dispiriting – will also figure here in the next federal election, which threatens to be as close, as unpredictable, and as divisive.”

and even more and yes, yesterday I promised myself I would read less news – just goes to show its baby steps