The phrase “real men solve problems with bombs” is not strength. It is a recruitment slogan for other people’s funerals.
The news from the Gold Coast carried a familiar tone of celebration. Five Iranian women footballers, including captain Zahra Ghanbari, escaping their government minders and being granted humanitarian visas in Australia. There were photos, cheers, and, as the Home Affairs Minister cheerfully reported, a spontaneous chant of “Aussie, Aussie, Aussie”.
For many Australians it felt like a simple story. Brave women rescued. Freedom offered. A good ending.
Stories like this have a powerful pull. They tap into an old idea that runs deep through Western political culture. The idea that someone will ride in on a white horse and save the day.
The white knight.
Across history the script has repeated itself. Strong men, often described as decisive or tough, step forward declaring that they will fix another country’s problems. The language shifts between defence, liberation, stability or democracy. The outcome rarely matches the promise.
Think Vietnam. Iraq. Afghanistan. Libya.
Each began with claims that intervention would deliver freedom. Each left societies fractured, institutions weakened and millions of ordinary people carrying the cost for generations.
What is missing from the white knight story is the people who actually live in those countries.
Iranians are not waiting for outsiders to rescue them. They have been debating the future of their country for decades. Students, women, writers, workers, clerics, reformers and conservatives all argue fiercely about what Iran should become. The struggle inside the country is real, complex and deeply Iranian.
History shows something else as well. Lasting change almost always grows from inside a society, not from outside armies.
South Africa dismantled apartheid through internal resistance and negotiation.
Indonesia moved away from dictatorship after mass civil pressure.
Eastern European countries rebuilt themselves after the collapse of the Soviet bloc through internal political movements and public demand for change.
External pressure can sometimes open space. It can support civil society. It can amplify voices that governments try to silence.
War does the opposite. It crushes the very people who might build a different future.
The phrase “real men solve problems with bombs” is not strength. It is a recruitment slogan for other people’s funerals.
Strength measured in explosions is a very old idea. It has left a trail of ruined cities and broken societies.
The Iranian footballers who escaped in Australia remind us of something far more hopeful. People everywhere want the same thing. The chance to live safely, to speak freely and to shape the future of their own country.
That future will not arrive on a white horse.
It will be built by Iranians themselves.











Dr Tony Gilmour ( Vice President) and Sue Eggins ( President) who led the conversation on the history of the Pilot’s Cottage which houses the Kiama’s Maritime Museum – Composite photo




