How We Can Shift Our Perspective and Find Joy and Inspiration in Our Everyday Surroundings by Changing What We Choose to Focus On

I saw a meme today on Facebook that said,

The world you see is created by what you focus on.

It’s never too late to adjust your lens.”

With the sun now shining and the wind disappearing, I decided to take my iPad for a walk around my garden. As I wandered through, I spotted this lonely hydrangea flower enveloped by a spiderweb, and I was fascinated.

In the midst of winter’s cold and wind, this small moment reminded me of the resilience and beauty that can be found even in the simplest things. The delicate web, glistening in the sunlight, seemed to tell a story of survival and intricate craftsmanship. The hydrangea, though weathered and solitary, stood as a testament to nature’s enduring cycles and the promise of renewal with the coming spring.

By focusing on small, often overlooked wonders, we can shift our perspective and find joy and inspiration in our everyday surroundings. It’s a gentle reminder that beauty and fascination can be found in the most unexpected places, if only we take the time to notice.

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Remembering Nola Marjory Irvine who left a Legacy of Love and Resilience

Nola Irvine’s life was a testament to love, resilience, and community spirit. Her ever-smiling face, unwavering friendship, and compassionate personality left an indelible mark on all who knew her. As we remember Nola, we celebrate a life well-lived, filled with joy, strength, and an enduring faith in God.

Irvine Family- L to R Back Row Sisters Nola, Valma, Olwyn and Molly, Front Row Parents Ivy ( nee Fredericks) and Robert Irvine

Nola Marjory Irvine’s life is a beautiful tapestry woven with threads of love, resilience, and an unwavering spirit. Born on July 21, 1926, at “Brooklyn,” a private hospital in Kiama, Nola was baptized and christened in the Church of the Resurrection (CoE), where she remained a devoted member throughout her life.

Nola grew up on Clover Hill, a dairy farm run by her parents, Robert and Ivy Irvine, since their marriage in 1920. Despite the untimely passing of her father in 1949, the family continued to manage the farm with the invaluable support of share-farming families like Ray and Avril King and later, Michael and Lynne Strong. These families provided much more than labour; they offered genuine friendship and neighbourly support, enabling the Irvine family to stay rooted at Clover Hill.

Education was a challenge in the early days, with Nola and her sisters often riding horses and walking long distances to attend Jamberoo Public School. Eventually, Nola completed her education through correspondence with Blackfriars’ Correspondence School, which later became known as the School of the Air.

Nola Irvine is 2nd from the right in the bottom row at Jamberoo Public School circa 1931-1932

Nola’s childhood memories are filled with joy and laughter. Visits to Clover Hill were marked by her great sense of humour, engaging board games, and delicious treats. Her love for animals was evident as she cared for her chooks, cats, birds, and cows, always accompanied by her faithful feline friends during farm chores.

Diagnosed with Coeliac disease in 1985, Nola faced her health challenges with remarkable strength and positivity. Her condition, undiagnosed for many years, never dimmed her spirit.

Her favourite saying, “it’s only a problem if you make it one,” encapsulated her approach to life. Nola’s calm, loving nature and unwavering faith were a testament to her resilience and courage.

Nola was an active member of the Girls Friendly Society during the war years, participating in hikes and picnics. Her loyalty and warmth were highlighted by her pen pal relationships, particularly with friends in England, which spanned over 50 years. A visit from her pen pals about a decade ago was a cherished moment, allowing Nola to proudly showcase her beautiful district.

Her passion for photography, inherited from her father, and her interest in family history were integral parts of her life. Nola played a significant role in researching and publishing the Fredericks Family History in the 1970s, preserving the legacy of her ancestors, including her two great-great-grandfathers who fought in the 1815 Battle of Waterloo.

Nola’s life was a testament to love, resilience, and community spirit. Her ever-smiling face, unwavering friendship, and compassionate personality left an indelible mark on all who knew her. As we remember Nola, we celebrate a life well-lived, filled with joy, strength, and an enduring faith in God.

Nola Marjory Irvine, born July 21, 1926, passed away on June 20, 2004. Her legacy continues to inspire us, reminding us of the power of love and resilience.

This blog post is one of a series in the Family History Series on the Irvine Sisters. Thank you to Nola’s cousin Russell Fredericks for sharing his memories

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