Category: Opinion

When will we start responding to risk before people are harmed

We are very good at responding to shock.

After something terrible happens, systems move quickly. Reviews are announced. Events are isolated. Responsibility is narrowed to a moment, a person, a place.

What remains harder to face is everything that came before.

The figures state what cannot be ignored. In the most recent year, 3,307 deaths were recorded as suicide. Seventy-nine women were killed by domestic violence. Thirty-three Aboriginal people died while in custody.

Different circumstances, different systems, the same outcome.

None of these deaths arrived without warning.

Risk does not appear suddenly. It accumulates. It shows up in missed follow-ups, thresholds that are too high, services that do not speak to each other, and responsibility that slips sideways between institutions. It lives in the space between what is known and what is acted on.

We talk about safety after harm occurs. We talk less about prevention. We avoid root causes because they require sustained attention rather than rapid response, coordination rather than containment, and action while outcomes are still uncertain.

Prevention does not come with a single defining moment. It rarely produces a headline. It relies on noticing patterns early, intervening sooner, and treating risk as something to be managed over time rather than explained after loss.

If we are serious about safety, the question is not how decisively we respond once lives are lost.

It is whether we are willing to respond while there is still time to prevent harm, even when the story has not yet forced our hand.

Graham Richardson. Whatever it takes and what it costs

When I was young, I thought Henry Kissinger was something special. He seemed calm, clever, powerful, the man everyone turned to when the world was on fire. The media made him sound like a hero. Only later did I learn about the secret bombings in Cambodia, the support for dictators, and the way real people paid the price for his so-called strategy. The shine came off pretty fast once you understood what those decisions meant for ordinary lives.

“Henry Kissinger is one of the worst people to ever be a force for good.”  Nicholas Thompson, editor of newyorker.com

Graham Richardson came later, but I was never a fan. Different stage, same play. He was the backroom operator who knew how to pull the strings, the man everyone said you had to have on your side. Yet somehow, despite all the questions and all the deals, he stayed above it all. The media made him a character, not a cautionary tale.

“There were no true believers in Richo’s world, only those who could deliver. It was effective, certainly, but it left behind a smaller kind of politics, one that taught us how easy it is to win the game and lose the point of playing it.”

It’s funny how age changes what you see. Back then, power looked impressive. Now I look at it and wonder who was writing the story, and why we all believed it. Instead of lifting public life, he made it narrower, more cynical, more about winning than governing.

In the end, the commentators probably summed him up best.

“Richo was the ultimate Labor numbers man,  brilliant, ruthless, and utterly transactional. He turned survival into an art form, always one step ahead of the fallout. To many, he made politics look like a business deal, where loyalty was negotiable and purpose optional. “

Addendum

News that Graham Richardson will be given a state funeral has stunned me  Honouring him in this way feels less like recognition of public service and more like confirmation of how skewed our political compass has become.

There was a time when state funerals were reserved for those who lifted the country, people whose contribution went beyond party or personal survival. Now it seems the test is different: power itself has become the virtue.

It’s not about denying grief or denying that he mattered to many. It’s about what we, as a nation, choose to honour. When a life spent mastering political deals is celebrated as public greatness, it tells us more about our leaders than about the man in the coffin.

For me, it’s another reminder of why integrity still matters, and why we need to keep asking the hard questions about who gets remembered, and what for.

Investigative reporter Kate McClymont’s story in SMH today 11 Nov 2025 is behind a paywall but it is so spot on it’s worth a subscription. ‘Long lunches, Swiss bank accounts and a kangaroo scrotum: My decades pursuing Graham Richardson”

#PowerAndPerception #MediaInfluence #Realpolitik #AustralianPolitics #GrahamRichardson #HenryKissinger #WhateverItTakes #PublicAccountability #LessonsFromHistory #CriticalThinking

 

 

 

When the Trolls Take Over the Thread

“People are watching. Values are showing.”

You’ve probably seen it before.

Someone posts something heartfelt. Maybe it’s about a humanitarian crisis or a fundraising appeal. Maybe it’s just a quiet call to care – about refugees, conflict zones, environmental devastation, or yes, children starving on the other side of the world.

Then in comes the comment.
Cold. Blunt. Designed not to inform, but to provoke.

“Nobody in Australia gives two hoots about people starving on the other side of the world.”

It’s the kind of line that doesn’t just shut down empathy – it throws it under a bus, reverses back over it, and then posts a meme to celebrate the ride.

And yet, as predictable as it is, it works.
It gets reactions.
It triggers outrage.
It attracts backup.
The poster’s “tribe” shows up. So do the people who want to push back.

And within a few hours, the post isn’t about the original issue at all.
It’s about that comment.

The comment that’s no longer about the suffering. It’s about the person who made it about themselves.
And the energy that could have been used to support or inform or take action is now being used to argue with someone who never came to learn, only to dominate the thread.

Eventually, the admin steps in.

“Hi all. Comments outside the group rules and obvious trolling are now reaching overload levels. We appear to be going down a Facebook rabbit hole. As such, we are locking comments. Thank you to those that engage respectfully.”

And just like that, the whole thing shuts down.

No discussion.
No momentum.
No outcome.

This is the world of the disruptor.

They don’t always fit the stereotype. Some are aggressive and obvious. Others are more subtle, smugly asking “reasonable” questions while spreading doubt or stirring division.

And then there are the strawman specialists. The people who twist what’s been said into something it never was, then argue fiercely against that distortion. They’ll take a comment about caring for people in crisis and turn it into, “So you’re saying we should ignore our own country?”

And sometimes, the derailment is even more calculated. The conversation begins with a plea for basic human compassion, food, safety, dignity  and ends in a rabbit hole about geopolitics. Suddenly it’s all about Hamas. As if the actions of a regime justify the suffering of children. As if starvation is deserved because of who controls the border.

This isn’t nuance. It’s a tactic. A way to sidestep empathy by turning the victims into suspects. And once that happens, there’s no space left for humanity , just cold rationalisation and echo chambers clapping back in agreement.

And before you know it, the thread isn’t about the issue anymore, it’s about defending a point no one actually made. That’s the rabbit hole. And too often, we fall in.

What they have in common is intent. Their goal isn’t dialogue. It’s derailment.

And the more charged the topic, the more likely they’ll appear.

Strawman arguments don’t build dialogue – they burn it down.

We could say ignore them. But we know that’s easier said than done, especially when the issue feels personal or urgent.

We could block them. But often by then the damage is already done, the space has been flooded, and meaningful conversation has drowned under it.

Or, we could start recognising what’s happening for what it is.
Not just trolling. Not just bad behaviour.
But performance is often driven by ego, dressed up as bold truth-telling.

The people doing it rarely think they’re being watched. But they are.
Not just by their tribe – the loyal few who jump in to defend every outburst – but by everyone else who’s watching and thinking, “When you mock pain, you reveal more about your values than you realise and none of it is admirable.”

So what can we do?

We don’t need to match someone’s energy to show who we are.
We don’t need to follow them down every rabbit hole, or correct every misrepresentation.

When someone builds a strawman, twisting our words to make them easier to attack, the goal isn’t clarity. It’s control. And we don’t have to give it to them. See footnote

We just have to keep our focus.
Keep our integrity.
And keep speaking to the people who are still listening.

Because not everyone in the thread is arguing.
Some are watching.
Some are learning.
And some are waiting for a voice that sounds like reason.

Let that be you.

“Outrage is loud, but character lasts longer.”

Footnote:

How to Handle a Strawman Argument Without Losing the Thread

You don’t have to match their energy.
You don’t have to defend something you never said.

When someone responds to a post about human suffering by making it all about geopolitics or criminal groups, that’s not a real response. That’s a strawman. It’s meant to shift the focus, create doubt, and exhaust you.

Here’s how to bring the conversation back:

  • 🔁 Refocus:
    “This post is about civilian suffering. Can we stay with that?”

  • 🧭 Clarify intent:
    “That’s not what I said. I’m talking about people, not politics.”

  • 🚫 Don’t follow the bait:
    “We can debate governments another time. Right now, I’m talking about hunger. About dignity. About human lives.”

  • 🧍‍♀️ Speak for yourself:
    “You don’t have to agree with me. I won’t let compassion be dismissed as moral confusion.”

Not every comment needs a reply. But when you do respond, respond with purpose, not performance. Don’t argue for the algorithm. Speak for the people still listening, still learning, still trying to care.

That’s how we keep the thread intact.
That’s how we keep our voice.

#SocialMediaDisruptors #EgoAndOutrage #DigitalCivility #OnlineIntegrity #TribalThinking #PublicValues #WatchWhatYouAmplify #TrollingWithConsequences #RespectfulDialogue

Housing Strategies and Hollow Promises and Why Listening Isn’t Enough

It’s time to stop drafting strategies that sit on shelves. Let’s start building the courage to act.

If you’ve ever read a local government housing strategy, chances are it felt familiar, even if you were reading it for the first time. They tend to follow a pattern:
✔️ They acknowledge the issues.
✔️ They summarise the feedback.
✔️ They speak the language of care, equity, and inclusion.
But scratch the surface, and you’re often left asking: Where’s the action?

The latest Kiama Municipal Council Draft Housing Strategy in our region is no exception. To its credit, it captures what matters to people: housing that’s affordable, developments that respect the character of our towns, and planning that keeps pace with infrastructure. It admits where voices were missing, renters, younger people, Aboriginal residents, and it publishes community feedback clearly and transparently. That’s important.

But recognition is not reform. We don’t need another document that nods along with community concerns, only to drift into safe territory, generalities, delays, and vague promises of “sensitive growth” and “further consideration.” We need something braver.

Our housing problems aren’t unique, with communities across the country  grappling with rising prices, stagnant wages, rental insecurity, and generational lockout.

And in many places, solutions are already being tried. Community land trusts. Build-to-rent models. Tiny home villages. Prefabricated homes built by social enterprise. Councils developing and retaining their own affordable housing stock. There are people doing incredible work, often outside the traditional planning system, because they’ve had no choice but to act.

So why isn’t that reflected in our local strategy?

There’s no commitment to identifying what’s working elsewhere. No plan to pilot innovation. No acknowledgement of the community-led efforts already happening here. And no tools, no inclusionary zoning, no local affordability targets, no plan for securing housing for workers or renters or older people wanting to downsize and stay close to family.

Instead, we get the usual safety net of “alignment with state frameworks” and “monitoring future needs.” It’s the language of delay.

Listening should be the starting point  – not the end.

This is about ambition – not just process.

A genuinely community-driven strategy would do more than summarise feedback. It would:

  • Name and support local innovators already making change.

  • Seek out bold ideas from elsewhere and ask: could this work here?

  • Test small-scale pilots and learn from them.

  • Move beyond consultation and into co-creation, especially with those most affected by housing stress.

Transparent processes and pretty reports are not enough. People need homes,  and they need leaders ready to do more than listen.

It’s time to stop drafting strategies that sit on shelves. Let’s start building the courage to act.

#HousingStrategy #AffordableHousing #CommunityLedPlanning #InclusiveGrowth #LocalVoices #BuildBetter #PlanningForPeople #HousingJustice #PolicyToAction

A Marketing Moo-vement in the Wrong Direction?

Cows are clever but kangaroos and wallabies are doing it in high heels and backwards

“Beef cattle produce 12 times more methane than kangaroos per kilo of meat, so they have a much bigger impact on the environment,” Professor Wilson said. Source 

 

While this graphic admirably attempts to shine a light on the often-overlooked virtues of livestock—turning food we can’t eat into protein—it somewhat misses the mark as a compelling piece of marketing. It’s a bit like trying to sell a car by saying, “It’s not a bicycle!” Yes, it’s technically true, but it’s not exactly the kind of rousing endorsement that wins over hearts and minds.

This blog post is part of a series on livestock industry marketing faux pas

The focus on how livestock make use of inedible materials, though an interesting fact, comes across as a bit defensive, as if the industry is constantly on trial, needing to justify its very existence. It’s as if livestock farming is nervously raising its hand in class to say, “But I’m useful, too!” Meanwhile, we could be highlighting the genuine, undeniable positives of animal agriculture—things like maintaining beautiful grasslands, sustaining rural communities, and producing some of the most nutritious food available.

This is a prime example of livestock marketing going udderly awry. The  reality is, comparing livestock to, say, herbivorous marsupials with their impressively low methane emissions might just backfire. Instead of putting livestock on the back foot, why not put them in the spotlight for the right reasons? Rather than harping on about what they do with inedible crops, we could be championing the innovation and sustainability practices within the industry that are shaping a better future.

So, instead of trotting out charts that feel like they’re pleading the case, perhaps it’s time for a more confident narrative—one that celebrates the irreplaceable role of livestock in a sustainable food system. After all, the best defence is often a good offence, especially when you’ve got a story worth telling.

#AgriMarketing #FarmFails #Sustainability #Livestock #FoodSystems #Moo-vement #EcoFriendly #Agriculture

Review of “Red Eye” – the Epitome of the American Hero’s Journey

Red Eye  leans hard into the classic American hero’s journey,  one man against the odds, carrying the weight of the world. It’s high-stakes, high-drama, and not especially grounded in reality. But it’s also a false narrative. Real change doesn’t come from lone heroes, it comes from people working together, sharing power, and taking collective responsibility. That’s why I bothered to review it. It’s  because participatory democracy depends on us moving past these myths.

Red Eye opens fast, a stabbing, a crash, an arrest at Heathrow. The protagonist is accused of killing a young woman, daughter of a Chinese Party general, and is quickly extradited to avoid jeopardising a government energy deal.

It made me think of Blue Lights. Where Red Eye sticks with the classic hero’s journey, Blue Lights takes a quieter path. It’s about ordinary people, messy choices, and a system that doesn’t always reward doing the right thing. It’s less polished, more human  and to me, more compelling.

Red Eye also leans heavily on one female character who backs the protagonist. She’s there to believe in him, to push his story forward, but we never get the same insight into her.

Two different shows. Two different ideas of what heroism looks like.

#RethinkingHeroism #ModernStorytelling #CollectiveNarratives #CinemaEvolution #HeroicJourney #BritishVsAmericanTV #RealWorldHeroism #EnsembleCast #SocialChangeCinema #StorytellingShift

Understanding the Roots. Why People Turn to Drugs to Cope in Today’s World

In today’s fast-paced, high-pressure society, the increasing use of drugs as a coping mechanism is a critical issue that often goes unaddressed in meaningful ways. This blog post aims to explore the deep-seated reasons behind this trend and suggest ways we can collectively address the underlying causes.

This post is a follow up to one in a series  “Beyond Crisis: Unveiling the Hidden Battles in Mental Health and Addiction” 

The Stigma and Silence

One of the most significant barriers to addressing drug use is the stigma attached to it. Drug addiction is frequently seen as a moral failing rather than a health issue. This perspective breeds judgment rather than support, silence instead of dialogue. As a result, individuals struggling with drug use often feel isolated and misunderstood, which only exacerbates the problem. By shifting our perception from blame to understanding, we can begin to break down the barriers that prevent effective solutions.

The Mental Health Crisis

It’s no secret that mental health challenges are on the rise, exacerbated by the isolation and stress of modern life. Yet, despite increasing awareness, mental health services remain inaccessible for many. High costs, long wait times, and limited resources mean that those who need help the most are often left to fend for themselves. Without proper support, drugs can seem like a quick fix to numb pain or escape reality, filling the gap left by inadequate mental health care.

Economic Despair

Economic instability is another powerful force driving individuals toward substance use. In areas where jobs are scarce and poverty is high, drugs can offer an escape from the harsh realities of everyday life. Moreover, the lack of economic opportunities can lead to feelings of hopelessness and low self-worth, which are often managed through drug use. Addressing this issue requires more than just economic policies; it demands a holistic approach to community development and support.

Prevention and Education

Preventive measures and education programs often miss the mark by focusing solely on the dangers of drug use or advocating for abstinence. What is frequently missing is an understanding of why individuals turn to drugs in the first place. Effective education needs to address the emotional and psychological aspects of drug use, teaching coping mechanisms that can replace the need for substances. Additionally, community-based programs that offer engagement and support can help fill the social void that many drug users experience.

Insights from the Front Lines: BlueLights Session 2

The insights from “Blue Lights”  Series 2, drawing from over 20 years of experience in pharmacy and involvement in the methadone program,   emphasise practical knowledge that we are yet to fully implement. These insights can guide us in refining our approach to drug-related issues, demonstrating the value of experience in creating more effective health strategies. It’s clear that the lessons learned in specialised programs like these are crucial for developing targeted interventions that address the specific needs of those affected by drug dependency.

The Role of First Responders

This episode of BlueLights sheds light on the extraordinary challenges that first responders face in the field. It brings to the forefront an important consideration: first responders shouldn’t be our first point of contact in mental health crises. Relying solely on first responders for incidents involving mental health or drug-related issues places undue stress on them and may not provide the best care for the individual in crisis. This underscores the need for accessible and specialised mental health services that can intervene before situations escalate to the point of requiring emergency response.

Moving Forward: A Call to Action

To truly address the issue of drug use as a coping mechanism, we need a compassionate, multi-pronged approach:

  1. Enhance Mental Health Services: Increase funding for mental health services to make them more accessible and affordable. Support should be readily available to those in crisis without bureaucratic hurdles.
  2. Economic and Community Development: Invest in communities, particularly those hit hardest by economic decline, to provide hope and opportunities that can reduce the appeal of drug use.
  3. Change the Narrative: Work towards destigmatising drug use. Encourage open conversations about addiction and mental health, and frame drug use as a public health issue, not a criminal one.
  4. Educate Effectively: Revamp educational programs to focus not just on the dangers of drugs, but also on teaching healthy coping mechanisms and understanding the psychological triggers for drug use.

By understanding the underlying reasons why people turn to drugs and addressing these issues head-on, we can begin to mitigate the need for such coping mechanisms. This is not just a health

#MentalHealthAwareness #DrugPrevention #PublicHealth #EndTheStigma #CommunitySupport #EconomicRecovery #FirstResponders #BlueLights #MentalHealthCare #CopingMechanism #PharmacyGuildAustralia

Seeds of Change and Embracing a Fair Green Transition in Agriculture 🌱

As the drumbeat of environmental sustainability grows louder, communities like ours in Kiama are standing at the forefront of a delicate dance between progress and preservation. With agriculture etched deep in our identity, the question isn’t just about yielding to the pressures of urbanisation; it’s about growing with conscience and care. 🌾

In recent discussions, a tale from Wales rings a cautionary bell, reminding us that our path forward requires more than just policy—it demands partnership. Welsh farmers, faced with stringent decarbonisation mandates amidst dwindling government support, find themselves in a quandary that echoes across the globe, including here in Kiama. 🚜💨

It’s a tale that paints a stark picture: the austerity-driven green transition puts undue stress on individual farm businesses. Welsh farmers, while embracing the ethos of conservation, are left pondering the viability of planting trees over tilling the soil without assured long-term funding. In Kiama, we take this as a learning moment, understanding that our solutions must grow from the ground up, rooted in dialogue and support. 🤝

The conversation begs for balance. How do we equip our farmers, the custodians of our landscapes, to adapt and flourish? Kiama’s dedication to its dairy dynamism and agricultural allure suggests a symbiotic approach, blending tradition with innovation. 🧑‍🌾🔬

Agritourism and value-added products are not mere buzzwords here; they are lifelines to diversification and sustainability. They are opportunities to weave a richer tapestry for Kiama, where green spaces are not mere postcards but productive, participatory hubs of community and culture. 🍃🐄

Our journey forward is paved with more than good intentions; it necessitates action against supply chain disparities where the true cost of cheap produce is borne by the producers themselves. In a world where supermarkets tally up profits, we stand for equitable recompense for those who toil the land. 🛒📈

As we pivot towards a future where development and green policies coexist harmoniously, let’s champion a ‘just green transition’. This is a call to support our farmers beyond mere words, fostering systems that offer tangible rewards for ecosystem stewardship, ensuring that the fabric of Kiama’s agricultural heritage remains intact for the coming generations. 🌳💚

We need not look further than our own backyard to realise the potential. With every step we take, with every policy we advocate for, we sow the seeds for a future where agriculture continues to be the heartbeat of Kiama. Let’s grow together, nurturing a landscape where development is sustainable, inclusive, and just.

#SustainableAgriculture #KiamaFarming #GreenTransition #CommunityGrowth #FarmersRights #AgriInnovation #FoodSecurity #EcosystemServices #RuralResilience #AgriculturalHeritage 🚜🌳🍽️

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