When I first began writing opinion pieces for the local paper, I thought I was there to change minds.
I believed that if I presented a strong enough argument, grounded in evidence and guided by conviction, I could shift people’s thinking. I thought that was my role: to persuade.
But over time, I’ve come to understand something more important. My job wasn’t to convince, it was to inform. It was to bring forward the issues that matter, so others could think for themselves. To create space for people to feel informed and empowered enough to participate. That, I’ve realised, is the quiet work of democracy.
I’ve also learnt that true influence rarely comes from telling others what to think. It comes from listening well, sharing openly, and making room for perspectives beyond your own. It’s about moving from an “I” focus to a “we” focus, not because we all agree, but because we believe in one another’s right to engage with the hard stuff.
This shift in understanding mirrors what I’ve seen in the movement for citizen juries and deliberative democracy. These processes don’t hand over power to the loudest voice, they invite ordinary people to consider complex issues deeply and together. And time and again, the results are thoughtful, measured, and grounded in lived experience. Participants surprise us, not because they suddenly become experts, but because they approach problems with humility, empathy, and care.
Still, the sector faces a challenge. It needs more than stories, it needs impact data. Decision-makers, especially in government, often remain resistant even in the face of compelling examples: on homelessness, electricity pricing, insurance reform, climate action.
There’s a frustrating gap between what works and what’s politically safe.
Part of the problem is fear. If politicians adopt citizen jury recommendations without scrutiny, they risk backlash. If they reject them, it breeds public cynicism. “Fake consultation drives people mad,” as former Premier Jay Weatherill warned.
It takes courage to own big problems, to share decision-making, and to act on what the public decides.
We also face a legitimacy paradox. Should citizen assemblies be embedded in our systems before they’re widely accepted? Or should they prove their value first in ad hoc ways?
The answer, I believe, lies in outcomes. Don’t make the process the debate, make the results visible. Show what people are capable of when they’re trusted to think together.
I’ve learnt that writing, like deliberation, isn’t about control. It’s about contribution.
It’s not about shaping the outcome, but about helping shape the conditions in which thoughtful decisions can emerge. It’s about lifting the level of conversation.
And that, to me, is the heart of it. Whether in journalism or policy, change happens when people stop trying to win and start trying to understand.
When we stop shouting from the margins and start gathering in the middle.
When we replace certainty with curiosity, and “I” with “we”.
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