Over seventy family members and friends recently gathered at Kiama Leagues Club to celebrate Robert (Bob) Young’s 90th birthday. It was a milestone that said as much about the man as it did about the community that has grown up around him.
Robert John Young was born on 30 October 1935 at Lindfield, the youngest son of Eric and Ruby Young and younger brother to Owen and Ron. In 1948 he moved to his mother’s family dairy farm on Riversdale Road, Jamberoo. Apart from a short stint at Westons, the farm became his life’s work. It later became known as Merley Friesian Stud and remains an active dairy farm today.
Bob married Annette in 1962. They raised three children, David, Colleen and Neil, and now have eight grandchildren, Zac, Dylan, Sarah, Callum, Byron, Lachlan, Aiden and Ellis. In 2018 Bob and Annette moved to Blue Haven on Terralong Street, closing a long chapter on the farm but not on community life.
At the celebration, speeches from family and long-time friends returned to the same themes, Bob’s commitment to faith, family and the wider Jamberoo and Kiama communities. His service includes Kiama Rotary, Kiama Show Society, the Jamberoo Golf Club, the Jamberoo Quartet, Jamberoo Rugby League, Jamberoo Tennis, Kiama Anglican and Kiama Men’s and Mixed Probus. In 2011 he received Kiama Council’s Citizen of the Year Award.
The family story of succession began close to home. David returned to the farm as a young man and took up dual careers, dairy farming alongside a growing building business. He kept the farm running during a period when extra hands were needed. When building work picked up and a young family followed, Bob encouraged him to choose the life that made sense. David went on to a successful career across several sectors and later into senior leadership roles with Anglicare, with the full support of his parents.
That choice opened the way for a different form of succession, one centred on opportunity rather than inheritance. The first share farmer was John Deen, who stepped in when Bob was around sixty. The farm then passed to the Grant brothers, early risers and very capable farmers. They were followed by the Honeys, who stepped in at a time when a major equipment failure could have ended the operation altogether.
Today the farm is run by Mat and Sarah Parker. They represent a new generation of dairy farmers locked out of land ownership by soaring prices yet determined to stay in the industry. The Young family’s approach gives them a pathway, a future, and room to grow.
That is Bob’s quiet gift to the valley. A farm that does more than grow grass. A farm that grows farmers. A farm that continues to reflect the values of the man who turned ninety, surrounded by people who carry those values forward.
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