I’ve spent a lifetime delving into the intricacies of leadership. I have attended courses, read the theories, written about them, appreciated role models and mentored others on the best practices. Yet, despite all this knowledge, I find it challenging to put these theories into practice in face-to-face interactions. It’s a humbling realisation that even after 60 years, change is arduous. This is why I am so committed to supporting young people to embed leadership skills into their everyday lives from the very start.
Why is it so important for young people to learn and practice these skills now? Because the earlier they start, the more ingrained these healthy behaviours will become. They won’t have to battle decades of ingrained responses; instead, they can develop a natural inclination towards constructive, positive interactions. They can become the leaders who instinctively know how to navigate crucial moments with grace and effectiveness.
For decades, social scientists have studied the flight or fight or freeze responses other phenomena seeking to explain our emotions and behaviour in crucial and sometimes frightening moments. Unfortunately, when these crucial moments come, we tend to act our worst. Our genetic and physical makeup, societal pressures, and a lack of healthy behaviour models all push us to act in self-defeating ways.
Understanding the science behind why we say the things we say can be transformative. It offers a pathway to healthier conversations, better relationships, and higher-performing teams. Yet, knowing the theory is only half the battle. The real challenge lies in the day-to-day practice, in those face-to-face moments where our instincts often betray us. It’s about building a bridge between knowledge and action, something that I continue to strive for and hope to instil in the younger generation.
Why is it so important for young people to learn and practice these skills now? Because the earlier they start, the more ingrained these healthy behaviours will become. They won’t have to battle decades of ingrained responses; instead, they can develop a natural inclination towards constructive, positive interactions. They can become the leaders who instinctively know how to navigate crucial moments with grace and effectiveness.
Supporting young people in this journey isn’t just about teaching them the theory. It’s about providing them with real-world opportunities to practice these skills, to make mistakes, and to learn from them. It’s about creating environments where healthy conversations and strong, supportive relationships are the norm. This is the legacy I hope to leave – not just a wealth of knowledge, but a generation of leaders who can put that knowledge into practice every single day.
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