Agriculture wanted better storytellers. Then we blew up the model that made them

 

I am about to spend World Peace Day talking to a group of 10 to 15 year olds about curiosity, critical thinking, communication and collaboration. Which is slightly confronting when you start looking around at how adults behave.

Before the workshop, the students will answer a short survey. They will answer the same questions afterwards. I am interested to see what changes, and I am also realistic enough to know they are unlikely to walk out several hours later transformed into world-class collaborators who calmly interrogate every assumption before breakfast.

That is because people do not change overnight. Oddly, we seem to forget this every time we organise a workshop.

How many times have you spent a day learning some marvellous new way of doing things, walked out thinking, “This is excellent” put the folder somewhere safe and carried on exactly as before? I have.

We have somehow developed a culture where learning is treated as an event. Book the facilitator, find the room, provide lunch, learn collaboration, home by four. Job done.

I learnt the limitations of that model the long way around.

When I came back into agriculture, people decided I did not look like the stereotype of someone they expected to see representing the industry. Apparently that was useful, so I was pushed out the front and into the media.

This was all very new to me, and I was not remotely comfortable with it, so I demanded training. Then more training. Then more training.

It took me about 15 years to feel comfortable.

The other day I gave a presentation and a number of people told me it was the best presentation they had ever seen.

They should have been at my first one.

It had 127 slides.

I wish I were exaggerating.

That experience changed the way I thought about developing other people. When I started the Young Farming Champions program, I wanted people to have what I had eventually learned I needed, time, repetition, feedback and somewhere safe to keep practising.

The Young Farming Champions model was built around ongoing development. Once you joined, you could remain part of the network for as long as you wanted, continuing to build your skills over time. During COVID, we ran workshops every month, so people could say, “I want to feel more comfortable doing this,” and we could focus on exactly that. We brought in outstanding Australian and international experts, then gave people repeated opportunities to practise, get feedback and keep improving.

That is how confidence grows.

Then agricultural bodies looked at what we were doing and decided they wanted something similar. The young people were already there. The Action4Agriculture team was already training them. What changed was the desire to have the program sit inside their own organisation.

This is where I became increasingly frustrated with the way institutions behave. We talk endlessly about collaboration, but the system often rewards the person who can point to something and say, “That was my idea. I built that. That was my result.”

Once that becomes the prize, curiosity becomes inconvenient.

Nobody asks, “Why is this working?” or “What could we add to what is already here?” The question becomes, “How do we create our own version?”

And that is how duplication starts to look like achievement.

The result can be beautifully efficient.

Train them on Saturday.

Face of the industry by Monday.

It is a wonderfully efficient system, provided human beings work like software updates.

Recently I have been spending time with collaboration specialist Stuart Waters, and he has been subtly  dismantling several things I thought I knew. One of them is my GPS model.

I have used it for years. Goal. Problem. Solution. Where are we trying to go? What is getting in the way? What is the solution? Perfectly sensible.

Except Stuart pointed out something rather inconvenient.

If we knew the solution, we probably would not have the problem.

With complex problems, the solution is rarely sitting there politely waiting for someone clever enough to notice it. Stuart talks instead about steps, experiments, things we can try, learn from and adjust.

So perhaps GPS survives. Goal. Problem. Steps.

I rather like that. It removes the requirement to stride into every complicated situation carrying The Answer.

It also exposes another habit we have. We are often in an extraordinary hurry to solve the problem before we have worked out what the problem actually is. Something goes wrong and we deal with the bit we can see.

People are not collaborating. Students are dropping rubbish. A community is not engaging. A candidate loses an election.

Right. Fix that.

Except those things may be symptoms. The interesting questions sit underneath. Why is this happening? What assumptions are we making? Who knows something we don’t? Who sees the situation differently?

And the question I am finding increasingly important in some other work I am doing is this.

Have we actually spoken to the people most affected?

It is astonishing how often the answer appears to be no. Reports get written, programs get designed, conclusions get reached and entire narratives develop. Meanwhile, somebody sitting right in the middle of the experience is thinking, “You could have asked me.”

And then I am preparing to stand in front of children and put this on a screen.

Stay curious. Ask before you assume. Understand the problem before you solve it. Listen to learn. Share the thinking. Try something small. Learn what happens. Keep going.

The children are not the only people who could use the reminder.

I am also going to ask them something I have found unexpectedly difficult myself.

Who do you know who does this? Who stays curious when everyone else has already decided? Who asks another question? Who listens because they genuinely want to know the answer? Who can say, “I don’t know”? Who can discover something new and change their mind without behaving as though they have suffered a humiliating defeat?

I can think of a few people. Stuart is one.

What I notice when I talk to him is that having expertise has not made him less curious. Quite the opposite. He keeps asking questions. What is the actual dilemma? Who else sees this differently? What could we try? What might we learn?

Perhaps that is what expertise should look like.

Knowing enough to know that you probably don’t know everything.

There is another uncomfortable question sitting underneath my student workshop. We spend a great deal of time telling young people they will need curiosity, critical thinking, creativity, communication and collaboration to navigate the future.

Who are they watching do it now?

Because one workshop will not do it. Not for them. Not for us.

A workshop might introduce an idea. It might give us language for something we had never noticed before. It might even make us uncomfortable enough to rethink something.

Then comes Monday.

That is when the learning starts.

How Do We Select Team Players and Identify True Collaborators for Leadership Opportunities

Selecting the right individuals for leadership roles, scholarships, and other significant opportunities is a challenging yet crucial task. Over my 15 years on various selection panels, I’ve encountered a recurring challenge: differentiating between applicants seeking personal career enhancement and those genuinely driven by a desire to be part of a team that makes a difference. Here are some insights and tips on identifying true team players:

Understanding the Importance of Teamwork

Individual commitment to a group effort—that is what makes a team work, a company work, a society work, a civilization work.” — Vince Lombardi

Teamwork is not just a buzzword; it’s a fundamental aspect of achieving collective success. As Helen Keller famously said, “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” This quote encapsulates the essence of teamwork and the incredible potential that lies in collaborative efforts.

Key Qualities to Look For

  1. Demonstrated History of Collaboration: Look for candidates who have a proven track record of working well in teams. This can be evidenced through their involvement in group projects, team sports, community service, or collaborative academic work.
  2. Communication Skills: Effective team players are also excellent communicators. They listen actively, articulate their ideas clearly, and provide constructive feedback. During interviews, pay attention to how candidates interact with you and others.
  3. Empathy and Respect: True collaborators respect diverse perspectives and show empathy towards their peers. They understand that every team member brings unique strengths and viewpoints, which can enhance the overall performance of the group.
  4. Willingness to Share Credit: A strong indicator of a team player is their willingness to share credit for successes. Look for candidates who use “we” instead of “I” when discussing their achievements, indicating their recognition of collective efforts.
  5. Problem-Solving Orientation: Team players are often solution-oriented and willing to go the extra mile to help their team succeed. They approach challenges with a collaborative mindset, seeking input from others and working together to find the best solutions.

“None of us is as smart as all of us.” — Ken Blanchard

Identifying Genuine Team Players

To identify candidates who genuinely want to be part of a team that makes a difference, consider the following strategies:

  1. Behavioral Interviews: Ask candidates about past experiences where they worked in a team. Questions like, “Can you describe a time when you had to collaborate with others to achieve a goal?” can reveal much about their teamwork abilities.
  2. Scenario-Based Questions: Present hypothetical scenarios that require teamwork to resolve. Observe how candidates propose to handle these situations and how they incorporate others’ input into their solutions.
  3. References and Recommendations: Seek feedback from previous supervisors, mentors, or team members who can provide insights into the candidate’s ability to work collaboratively.
  4. Group Activities: If possible, include group activities or projects as part of the selection process. This allows you to observe candidates in action and see how they interact with others in real-time.

Selecting individuals who are true team players requires a keen eye and thoughtful consideration. By focusing on their past behaviours, communication skills, empathy, and problem-solving abilities, you can identify candidates who are not only looking to advance their careers but are also committed to making a meaningful impact as part of a team. Remember, together, we can achieve so much more.

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Embracing Leadership Through Practice

I’ve spent a lifetime delving into the intricacies of leadership. I have attended courses, read the theories, written about them, appreciated role models and mentored others on the best practices. Yet, despite all this knowledge, I find it challenging to put these theories into practice in face-to-face interactions. It’s a humbling realisation that even after 60 years, change is arduous. This is why I am so committed to supporting young people to embed leadership skills into their everyday lives from the very start.

Why is it so important for young people to learn and practice these skills now? Because the earlier they start, the more ingrained these healthy behaviours will become. They won’t have to battle decades of ingrained responses; instead, they can develop a natural inclination towards constructive, positive interactions. They can become the leaders who instinctively know how to navigate crucial moments with grace and effectiveness.

For decades, social scientists have studied the flight or fight or freeze responses other phenomena seeking to explain our emotions and behaviour in crucial and sometimes frightening moments. Unfortunately, when these crucial moments come, we tend to act our worst. Our genetic and physical makeup, societal pressures, and a lack of healthy behaviour models all push us to act in self-defeating ways.

Understanding the science behind why we say the things we say can be transformative. It offers a pathway to healthier conversations, better relationships, and higher-performing teams. Yet, knowing the theory is only half the battle. The real challenge lies in the day-to-day practice, in those face-to-face moments where our instincts often betray us. It’s about building a bridge between knowledge and action, something that I continue to strive for and hope to instil in the younger generation.

Why is it so important for young people to learn and practice these skills now? Because the earlier they start, the more ingrained these healthy behaviours will become. They won’t have to battle decades of ingrained responses; instead, they can develop a natural inclination towards constructive, positive interactions. They can become the leaders who instinctively know how to navigate crucial moments with grace and effectiveness.

Supporting young people in this journey isn’t just about teaching them the theory. It’s about providing them with real-world opportunities to practice these skills, to make mistakes, and to learn from them. It’s about creating environments where healthy conversations and strong, supportive relationships are the norm. This is the legacy I hope to leave – not just a wealth of knowledge, but a generation of leaders who can put that knowledge into practice every single day.

#Leadership #YouthEmpowerment #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalIntelligence #TeamBuilding #SelfAwareness #HealthyConversations #PositiveInteractions #SupportYoungLeaders #TransformativeLeadership

 

How to Express Your Opinions Respectfully – A Guide for Assertive Communication

Introduction
Respectful communication is one of the most talked-about challenges in both online spaces and community meetings. Whether it’s a heated Facebook thread or a passionate debate at the local precinct meeting, the way we express our views can either build bridges or burn them. That’s why this article by communications specialist Alex Reed, “How to Express Your Opinions Respectfully – A Guide for Assertive Communication,” continues to resonate. It’s a practical and timely resource for anyone who wants to speak up, without shutting others down.

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“Speaking your mind needn’t be a battle. Let’s explore how to share your opinions in a way that’s heard and respected, not just loud.”

In today’s polarised world, expressing your opinions can sometimes feel like stepping into a minefield. However, articulating your thoughts assertively and respectfully is key to fostering understanding and maintaining healthy relationships, both personally and professionally. Here’s a straightforward guide to help you communicate your views without sparking confrontation.

Understand Your Intent

Before you speak, take a moment to understand why you want to share your opinion. Is it to inform, persuade, or understand a different viewpoint? Knowing your intent can help shape how you present your opinion.

Be Clear and Concise

Clarity and brevity are your allies. Articulate your thoughts clearly without overloading on information. Aim to convey your main points succinctly to avoid misunderstandings that might lead to defensiveness from others.

Use “I” Statements

Start your sentences with “I think”, “I feel”, or “I believe”. These phrases make it clear that you are speaking from your personal perspective, which can reduce the perceived aggressiveness of your statements and prevent the listener from feeling attacked.

Listen Actively

Respectful dialogue is a two-way street. Show the same level of respect you expect in return. Listen actively to others’ points of view without interrupting. This not only shows respect but also gives you insights into how your views might be received.

Agree to Disagree

Remember, it’s perfectly fine not to reach a consensus. Being able to respectfully agree to disagree is a hallmark of mature communication. It demonstrates your willingness to accept differing opinions.

Avoid Emotional Language

Keep your language neutral. Avoid charged or emotional words that might provoke a defensive response. Focus on factual information and rational arguments rather than letting emotions steer the conversation.

Practice Empathy

Try to see the issue from the other person’s perspective. This doesn’t mean you have to agree with them, but understanding where they’re coming from can help you frame your opinion in a way that respects their feelings and perspectives.

Stay Calm

Maintain your composure, even if the discussion gets heated. Keeping your cool helps keep the conversation productive and prevents it from turning into a conflict.

Expressing your opinions respectfully is not about diluting your message but about communicating it in a way that encourages dialogue and understanding. By being clear, using “I” statements, listening actively, and practicing empathy, you can make sure your voice is heard without stepping on toes. So the next time you have an opinion to share, remember these tips, and turn every conversation into an opportunity for growth and connection.

These practices not only enhance your ability to communicate effectively but also help create an environment where all voices can be heard and respected.

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How to Shift from Personal Attacks to Issue-Focused Discussions

“Transform your conversations: Learn how to move from personal attacks to productive, issue-focused discussions for more constructive and meaningful interactions.”

In our fast-paced digital world, conversations can quickly escalate into personal attacks, especially on social media where anonymity and physical distance make it easy to forget there’s a real person behind the screen. However, focusing on the issue rather than the person not only leads to more productive discussions but also helps maintain healthy relationships. Here’s how we can cultivate a more respectful and constructive dialogue.

Understanding Active Listening

Active listening is a key skill in transforming our conversations. It involves giving full attention to the speaker, understanding their message, and responding thoughtfully. By practicing active listening, we can foster a more respectful atmosphere where each person feels heard and valued, thereby reducing the likelihood of personal attacks.

The Importance of Constructive Communication

Educating ourselves and others on constructive communication is crucial. This includes using “I” statements that focus on our own experiences rather than making accusatory or generalized statements about others. For example, saying “I feel overlooked when my points are not considered” instead of “You never listen to me!” can shift the tone of the conversation.

Fostering Empathy

Empathy can dramatically change the way we interact with others. Trying to see the situation from another person’s perspective can reduce defensive reactions and help us focus on the real issues at hand. Empathy leads to understanding, and understanding opens the door to resolving conflicts.

Setting Clear Rules

In any environment, especially online, clear communication guidelines can help steer conversations towards issue-based discussions. Platforms that enforce these rules consistently create safer spaces for everyone involved, allowing for more meaningful exchanges.

The Role of Moderators

Online forums and discussion groups benefit greatly from moderators who can keep conversations on track. These individuals play a crucial role in guiding discussions back to the main issues and stepping in when personal attacks occur.

Encouraging Fact-based Discussions

Promoting discussions based on facts rather than opinions helps keep conversations objective. Encouraging participants to provide evidence for their claims can lead to more grounded and less emotionally charged discussions.

Focusing on the issue rather than the person is crucial for productive dialogue and maintaining positive relationships. By practicing active listening, fostering empathy, and following clear communication rules, we can transform our interactions into constructive and respectful exchanges. Implementing these strategies not only enhances our personal conversations but also improves the overall quality of discourse in any setting.

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By adopting these strategies, we can all contribute to creating more respectful and productive environments, both online and in person, enhancing our interactions and understanding across various platforms and situations.

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